What if we gave in?
I want to be clear here.
I am not talking about giving up or resigning from life. What I am talking about is a kind of letting go and not holding on so tightly to specific results.
When there is only one outcome that we find acceptable, we are limiting life and all the other wonderful opportunities that could happen. It’s as if we are creating roadblocks that prevent us from seeing and experiencing a larger world.
I’ve done this so many times in my life.
It’s hard not to. We are often programmed to want what we want. To set goals and achieve them. To create wish lists. To ask for very specific things; a certain car or watch or book…you name it. And sometimes we can even become obsessed by what we hope to possess.
We tend to think that we need to visualize or manifest only one thing or one outcome or we risk feeling like a failure.
So, what I’m really asking is whether we are capable of giving up this kind of thinking, this kind of asking, and this kind of expecting?
What if we gave in and it expanded our world?
Think of it as opening to a full allowance for everything to be possible, not just the one result our conscious mind can dream up. Our lives are so much bigger than that.
When I consider this, I wonder, what would that look like? How would that feel? What could happen if I could shift my attitude and mind-set?
My immediate answer is…anything could happen!
At first this sounds a bit scarry. ‘Anything’ is pretty wide open and could include things I’m not ready for. Perhaps this is one of the reasons we tend to want specific outcomes, so that we both get what we want and don’t get surprised by other things.
But how do we really know that what we think we want is what is best for us? I think the answer to that is, we don’t.
How could we?
And this begs another question, a far deeper one.
Will life, the universe, god, or whatever concept that feels right to you, provide whatever is best for us, if we give it a chance, and don’t shut the door and focus on only one thing?
Can we find a way to trust that?
That is a very tough question and one I’ve struggled with over the years.
What form of proof would you require before you could accept that what you experience in life is exactly right for you?
On my best days I am patient and open. I encourage myself to pay attention and carefully watch what happens. I counsel myself to accept what appears in my life, believing it is meant for me. I let go of what I’ve established as my goals, aims or desires and allow what comes to fill, feed and nourish me. When this happens, I recognize a greater truth, that I am cared for and all things in my life serve me. It may take a bit of time before I see how they do, but if I let go of my expectations, I come to see this clearly.
There is an awesome grace in giving in and letting go of whatever creates disharmony in our world and I am grateful each time I allow this to happen.