Would you like an opportunity to speak with yourself, either from the past or the future? To have things revealed to you, to make your life easier or to offer you a chance to avoid pitfalls.
That’s the question that came to me recently.
The event that created this was the purchase of a new bed for our upstairs bedroom. In order to make space I needed to relocate all the storage bins I’d shoved under the old bed. I’d really packed them in and basically only had a vague idea what they contained.
I made myself a promise to sort through every bin and make decisions regarding what was worth keeping and what needed to be thrown away.
My discoveries were very enlightening. There were all sorts of interesting things covering several different time periods in my life, some from college, some from my early working years and a few things that were more recent.
I found a lot of journals I’d written and decided to leaf through a few. I was struck by the life events that concerned me at the time I wrote them, some of which remain with me today, while others have long since been resolved.
A question popped up.
I wondered how my life would have changed if the ‘current me’ could go back and have a conversation with the ‘past me’. What could I have learned? And would I have listened and changed course?
I’m not sure.
Some part of me believes I wouldn’t have paid attention, and gone ahead and made the same decisions, despite the sound advice I received.
I don’t know about that either.
What would you have done; listened or ignored your ‘future self’? It’s an interesting question to kick around. Certainly, I’d have liked to avoid many of the problems in my life and taken an easier route.
But would I really?
The reason I ask is, would I still be the same person that I am today if I’d made different choices? And if I had, what would the consequences have been? Suppose the advice given me by my ‘future self’ altered the decisions I made that led me to a new friend, or a better job, or a wise investment?
How can anyone know the right path to take so that they experience the outcomes they most desire?
Something twisted during my musing about this.
I wondered, what would my life be like if the ‘current me’ could talk with the ‘future me’?
What if that were possible? What questions would I ask?
A few came to me quickly. How long will I live? Will I lose those closest to me? What will my day-to-day life be like? Will the New York Giants ever win another Super Bowl?
I sat with all of these questions and more for a while before deciding that I don’t really want to know.
I think it would spoil the surprise. And I think it would change every moment of my ‘current life’ because I’d be thinking about the ‘future me’.
I also think my life would lose its spontaneity, its spark, and its sparkle.
So, despite how much I might learn, I would choose just to wave to my ‘past’ and ‘future’ selves from a distance and go on about living my ‘current’ life.
We can still be friends, but for now, I choose to live in my present moment.