Do you know anyone who stands out from the crowd? Are you someone who does? If not, do you want to?
It’s funny to me that many folks I know, myself included, want it both ways. We want to stand out and be recognized for being who we are and to have our talents and skills applauded. But then at other times, we want to shrink into the background as far away from the light as possible.
What makes the difference?
How can it be that one experience draws up into the sunshine while another makes us fade into the darkness?
For those of you who don’t see the picture at the top of this post, it’s a stream bed filled with rounded rocks and one gorgeous red leaf in the middle. It’s such an interesting contrast. The muted tones of the smooth rocks against the rich brilliance of autumn color.
The red leaf stands out in sensational glory. My eyes center on it and it pulls me toward its rich redness.
A curious thought runs through my head. Would I notice this amazing leaf if it was among a mass of other red leaves, or would its individual splendor be lost? Perhaps the answer is obvious. I probably wouldn’t have noticed it. It wouldn’t have stood out.
The same is no doubt true about the rocks. Would I have noticed one individual rock among all of the others, if they all looked essentially the same?
So, does this mean that in order to stand out, you have to be different from what’s in the background?
I hope not. I hope that we can each see ourselves as the red leaf. Brilliant, special, unique. I hope that we can see past any limits we or others set in our way.
I wonder, can I? Can you? What would it take for us to answer yes to this question?
Sometimes it’s easy because we all do some things very well. They’re obvious to us and to others. It feels good and we shine.
But, what about the other times? The ones where we fail to meet our own expectations or those of others? The times when we want to vanish from sight?
I want to propose an idea to you.
What if you came to realize that within you there is a hidden greatness? One that could accept any experience previously considered a failure. A greatness that allows you to shift your perspective, turning any perceived failure into a wonderful learning step along your way.
What if this inner magnificence called to you by name and asked you to trust in your divinity? Imagine releasing any doubts and preconceived notions you have about yourself. Imagine knowing you came here already unique, special, and brilliant. And now that you are here, you can spread your wings and fly.
I am telling you the truth as I know it. As always, it’s up to you to decide.
There’s one more thing I want to say.
A dear friend of mine and I had many conversations and always returned to the same singular question she wanted answered.
She wanted to know how I could see inside her or someone else. She wanted to know how I could see past all the ‘stuff’ on the outside, to the inner goodness.
I told her that when I look at someone through my heart, what I see is beautiful golden sparkling glitter floating around them. I pause for a moment, then gently blow it away and see their magnificent heart. Each one beautiful, flawless.
Each of you are beautiful. You each stand out in your own way. I hope you know this.
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3 Replies to “Standing Out”
I like to “stand out” to the extent that I’m acknowledged for my contributions, but I don’t like a lot of attention. If people make a big deal of it, then I feel uncomfortable.
You stand out to me, my friend, in a very good way.